February 2009: Six months after our separation NJ finds out I'm dating. She loses her job and ends up in a mental hospital.
Febraury 2010: I'm engaged to my current wife.
February 2011: NJ gets engaged.
August 2011: NJ in a mental/drug rehab facility. She goes in on August 28th. We separated August 28th 2008.
May 2012: NJ in a Bible camp/drug rehab/long term residential facility for one year. She goes in on May 16th, which used to be our wedding anniversary. This is the summer of my S10's fifth grade year. Turns out she has an eating disorder in addition to, ostensibly, prescription drug addiction and anxiety. My mother left me in the summer of my 5th grade year. She had an eating disorder.
Please tell me I'm reading too much into this. I know that she's highly manipulative, but this is nuts.