New here and I'm in SERIOUS need of advice. I'm desperate

Parental Alienation, Malicious Mother Syndrome, dealing with the ex, and various other non-legal concerns throughout the process.

Re: New here and I'm in SERIOUS need of advice. I'm desperat

Postby ProudParent » Wed Jun 06, 2012 3:41 pm

Can I point out the obvious? If you are paying 1200/month for 1 child to be insured through your work you are missing the boat. Have you ever looked into a private policy? You could save at least $800 of that by doing a private policy on her alone.
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Re: New here and I'm in SERIOUS need of advice. I'm desperat

Postby minuette » Wed Jun 06, 2012 9:05 pm

Better yet, approach Mom#1 and offer her $100/mo bonus under the table to agree to a NY state support mod that requires her to enroll the child in the NY Child Health Plus plan, with you reimbursing her for the monthly premium. Unless Mom#1 is making over $60K (just her + kid), over $72k (family of 3) or over $90k (family of 4), etc., the monthly premium is only $60 for the kid.

Use the $1,040/mo savings to hired a damned lawyer and fix the CT case.
When the world changes around you and changes against you...you have to lean into that and figure out what to do, because complaining isn't a strategy. ~Jeff Bezos
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