Well folks, the tme is here. The petition for divorce has filed and my STBX has shown her teeth. She is ready for a fight. Her attorney sent me a request for all the financial documents for the past 6 years. The good thing about that, is that I have them. The better thing about that is that my wife has to produce the same thing. Doing so will show the times she took OM3 out on dates when I was deployed to Iraq. Yay! This is going to be fun. THis is going to be painful for me, but humiliating for her.
Some of the questions were also tailored to my bad habits. See, I like tequila and burbon. I go through a bottle of each every two weeks or so. I'll have a few drinks a few nights a week, and certainly on the weekends. However, I generally do it AFTER my son goes to bed, and ALWAYS in the comfort of my own home, and NEVER to the point of becoming fall down drunk. I drink responsibly. I don't get violent, I don't become abusive. I usually become very...amorous...if you catch my meaning.
When we first seperated, she told me I could make this as easy or as hard as I wanted it to be. Well, after this, I can see that I should have been saying this to her. She's going to make it very hard on herself.
Oh, and I think I met her boyfriend too. He would have been the 6'5", 250 LB dude staring me down when I went to pick my son up on Sunday. I was almost tempted to point at my STBX and say "yeah, I've tapped that".
However, I am going to take the high road on this. I'll let her step in the mess she made first. Then, I'll just let the judge know just how filthy that mess is.
Best of luck Mrs Gator...best of luck.