D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Parental Alienation, Malicious Mother Syndrome, dealing with the ex, and various other non-legal concerns throughout the process.

Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby nighthawk » Tue May 29, 2012 12:41 pm

You say you're confused about it, imagine how confused the children are. And now you're helping to cofuse them. Never lie to your child. Tell them the truth and raise them with the truth. Keeps them from more confused latter. And there is nothing imbarresing about it. If you didn't want the public to know you had step children, you shouldn't have married into it.A child only has one mom and one dad. No matter how good a parent they are, that's all a child gets. God bless the people who step into the roll of Parent, but it don't make them the parent.
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby newwife » Tue May 29, 2012 12:42 pm

I think you misunderstood my points.

I think it is wrong for a parent to encourage child to call someone else dad.

I was sharing my story. My daughter(on her own) would call my husband dad because his name sounds like dad and she couldn't speak well. Plus the other child in our household call him dad(cause he's actually her dad(my SD).
I discouraged her from calling him dad. It wasn't til she was older and could enunciate did she finally get the difference.


What I am saying is when we are in public and if the waitress calls me her mom(about my SD) it is more embarrassing to correct her(the waitress). My SD doesn't care, I don't care, and she's a stranger. So that doesn't matter.
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby nighthawk » Tue May 29, 2012 12:55 pm

newwife wrote:

My daughter was young when i met my now husband.
She starting calling him dad



I think I understood fine. This statement pretty much tells me that, even though your child may have or may not have had problems with forming sounds or letters. She could say dad and you knew thats what she was calling him.
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby nighthawk » Tue May 29, 2012 9:54 pm

What blows my mind is more dads have not spoke up for one of the few things we have going for us in court, a common mistake a female makes, just because they don't want to agree with the poster. That's like cutting your nose off to spite your face! A common trait of the white male!
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby Fatheroffour » Tue May 29, 2012 9:57 pm

Speak up for what?
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby nighthawk » Tue May 29, 2012 10:05 pm

So, just I understand, I am the only father on this site that thinks there is only one mom and one dad, of a child and a child should know who they are. And don't call it a speech impedimate.
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby TransAm » Tue May 29, 2012 10:10 pm

According to the last person you voted for, it's okay to have two moms and two dads.
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby nighthawk » Tue May 29, 2012 10:13 pm

I beg your pardon, you obviously do not know who I vote for, and you comment makes no since!
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby Fatheroffour » Tue May 29, 2012 10:16 pm

since what?
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Re: D6 is calling new guy papa and dada

Postby nighthawk » Tue May 29, 2012 10:20 pm

Way to avoid! You're the man! You win!I guess, while the site suffers!
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