secondhalf wrote:Desire to meet a basic human need doesn't equal jumping bed to bed.
True.... However the OP does admit to having more than one affair during his marriage. Therefore, it seems to me that the OP is as much or more to blame for the lack of intimacy in the marriage. I also hold to my feelings that the wife is perhaps unwilling to let go of the "caught" affair.
Not really. He said he cheated more than once and got caught.
RC211V wrote:Yep, for sure don't stay together for the kids. That, I don't think, is good for anybody.
Just make sure you are doing the best you can, like the previous post says.
RC211V wrote:No, even for the kids. That idea is a false one, that parents should stay together 'for the kids'. It isn't always the best alternative.
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