Stop concentrating on looking like the bad guy. It has little play in court.
What kind of custody arrangement do you want? Concentrate on what is important.
This is your chance to shape what your future will look like and your relationship to your kids.
yahoofx wrote:She's got a degree and such and has earning potential.
Does she have a job now? You were not clear, though the above statement implies SAHM.
Quality time cannot be scheduled. It spontaneously arises while doing the mundane. - FatherofFour