So my "wonderful" NJ of a ex and my oldest S15 got in a fight about her wanting to move to GA when both kids turned 18. He quoted her as saying "I cant wait till both you and your brother turn 18 so I can move out of this f***ing town" . Both of my kids like it here regardless of how she feels about it. S15 told her why dont you go now dad will take care of us.
Also S15 is tired of the partying, drinking, drug use, arguing, constant bad mouthing towards me by her. She also has a different man in and out of her house on a weekly basis (supposedly new one is a hotshot lawyer from DC
) that she met online. Im thinking what in the hell is this a fancy story and he is lying or he is desperate lol.
S15 wants to live with me and S12 is getting tired of her antics and also wants to live with me. I have a CS hearing in August but am thinking that a modification is in order. Both kids are happier here saying its "normal" and stable for them without all the arguing and druggies she hangs out with..
I have primary custody but CS office doesnt see it that way, I also have them Mon 8am till Fri 5pm 208 days to her 157, pay health insurance on them and provide all the clothing, school supplies etc for them. All the while she gets Tenncare, foodstamps, housing, etc because she has lied to the state to get those benefits.
The IRS even agreed with my tax refund for the earned income credit which she tried getting.
What are my chances in court? I want my kids to have a normal stable life not some dysfunctional one.