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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby TransAm » Thu May 03, 2012 6:48 pm

Guess the next time you got to be earlier. Sign him out an hour before dismissal. It's a chess game now.
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby jumbledone » Fri May 04, 2012 7:35 am

TransAm123 wrote:Guess the next time you got to be earlier. Sign him out an hour before dismissal. It's a chess game now.


x10,000,000

It is heating up outside, and oftentimes schools aren't very cool. Maybe an early break for ice cream?
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby demurrer » Fri May 04, 2012 10:15 am

jumbledone wrote:
TransAm123 wrote:Guess the next time you got to be earlier. Sign him out an hour before dismissal. It's a chess game now.


x10,000,000

It is heating up outside, and oftentimes schools aren't very cool. Maybe an early break for ice cream?


The school has procedures for early dismissal that requires students to provide a note upon arrival in the morning.

An afternoon ice cream trip could be done by walking into the office and asking for an early dismissal on the spot. Less paper work and no possibility of an early information leak to NJ/Stbx.
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby Fatheroffour » Fri May 04, 2012 10:21 am

Just make sure it doesn't turn into a weekly race on who can check the child out of school the earliest.
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby demurrer » Fri May 04, 2012 12:32 pm

Fatheroffour wrote:Just make sure it doesn't turn into a weekly race on who can check the child out of school the earliest.

Your point is well taken. There's five (5) weeks of school left and then I'm at the mercy of nj/stbx to grant access (with curb side pick up/drop off).
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby Fatheroffour » Fri May 04, 2012 12:36 pm

Depending on your choice of strategy, you may want to consider not tipping your hand until that last day of school and take kiddo on a summer vacation.
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby demurrer » Fri May 04, 2012 12:40 pm

Fatheroffour wrote:Depending on your choice of strategy, you may want to consider not tipping your hand until that last day of school and take kiddo on a summer vacation.


This is great strategy. I'm going to book some time off for a vacation.
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby dadmisseskids » Sun May 06, 2012 8:25 am

demurrer wrote:My other choices are:

Chapter 13 Bankruptcy
Default on Court ordered payments (mortgage and spousal support)
If you're thinking that you can file chapter 13 to rid yourself of spousal support, think again. Child and spousal support, which may include mortgage payments, cannot be discharged in a bankruptcy
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Re: platonic roommate(s) for income to make Court Ordered pm

Postby demurrer » Sun May 06, 2012 9:37 am

dadmisseskids wrote:
demurrer wrote:My other choices are:

Chapter 13 Bankruptcy
Default on Court ordered payments (mortgage and spousal support)
If you're thinking that you can file chapter 13 to rid yourself of spousal support, think again. Child and spousal support, which may include mortgage payments, cannot be discharged in a bankruptcy


I know of no way to dodge Support liability. In Virginia unpaid Support is an automatic default judgment. A bankruptcy might delay the start of payments, but the liability accrues.

I've heard that working for a Non-Government Organization (NGO) like the UN, World Bank, IMF, etc is a great (or was in the past) way to avoid an Income Deduction Order. What a novel way to level the playing field in support payment negotiations.

Oh crap. There's some mortgage payments tied to the temporary spousal support (and there's no clause in the Order to make the Nj/stbx follow-through with making those payments).
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