Maybe a first on this board, but I've gotten great advice with regard to my s4....why not ask?
While the stbx has access to the home and I'm relegated to extended stay hotels, she is responsible for our two dogs. I often drive by to simply drop off a gift by the door for my son(a promise I made him my last day there, so that he would know Dad has not left him). It also provides me the ability to ensure she is utilizing the house and taking care of responsibilities.
Thus, two weeks ago she left home for two days. Our dogs were locked up in master bedroom with a bowl of water and food and no access to yard. (since I'm not allowed in the home I will plead the fifth on how I know the details.)
This weekend marks the second occurrence and approaching 3 day unattended. What are my options? I'm not going to just sit here and let them starve/soil the bedroom.(we're taliking two Labrador retrievers) If I go in and simply get them out, I likely face contempt. Does desperate times require desperate measures? Obviously, I could try and speak to judge, but that is two days from now....