SmokinMeanRibz wrote:You say that he would be an absolute fool to have any association with my daughter. Why? because someone might falsely accuse him of sexual abuse in order to attempt to get around a statute that states she must have my permission to move?
Why was that not clear, I was very specific, but I am not linking it to your permissions about her move - you are. Your NJ has gone there - she is considering it - she has pointed a loaded gun at Jim's head. Do you think he should just stick around to find out if she'll pull the trigger?
You appear not to recognize the gravity of a false accusation of sexual abuse. You must have missed the hundreds of posts here about exactly these circumstances, disgruntled ex-wife accuses "Jim" because it fits the stereo-type to a tee; unrelated male adult in the home and having private contact with the child. Defense of these accusations can leave Jim penny-less and suicidal. Do you know what questions they will ask Jim in the polygraph? Take a shot at an obvious one - Do you masturbate?
It is for Jim's personal protection that you cannot involve him with your daughter at this time. If you like Jim as much as you say you do, then you won't place him at risk.