History: Order paying a set amount each month. 30% pay decrease in mid 2011. Still paying same amount. EX files for more CS, based on what I used to make. Again, decree says I pay x amount only, NOTHING ELSE.
Ex attorneys asked for % of my company reimbursed per diem (even though it does not cover expenses), % of 2009-2011 401k hardship withdraws and 2009-2011 % of company 401k distribution, which I can't get to until I retire and CS based on my old job over the last 3 years. Judge gave no real body language hints, but was extremely fair to the couple ahead of us. Husband actually won. Hope my attorney is correct about this stuff. Her attorney asked me about all of the above and then my attorney just simply asked if I paid the amount stated in my divorce decree and what I make now. What a bad day. Felt horrible.
No retroactive anything in my state except to when she filed in December. Meaning, my decree says nothing about per diem, 401k W/D's, 401k stuff, just I pay her X amount every month. If the new decree changes, it only goes back to December. She was so unorganized, we ran out of time. $$$$$$$
I guess I am supposed to like this...