i spent A YEAR negotiating an agreement with her, and now she has broken it just to torture me. I fell like I did my best. I have beenthru hell for the last 2 years "hanging in there".
My story exactly, and also many others on this board have similar stories. Don't let the 2 year investment go to waste. Never forget what seems the easy way now often is nothing but regret later.
She is just a lying, manipulative vindictive, viscious person. I am tired of being drawn into that. Its BS. I want to put my attention back on creating my business and having fun. How am I going to do that when I have a financial boat anchor around my neck?
You have a choice. Do not give her the power to do this. Do not "become" that person she "wants" you to be. Do not prove she is right. Choose yourself. Choose your children. Choose your new life. You can have a great balance of joy and responsibility with your career, new relationships, personal development and your children. Anything that has worth "costs" even if it is in blood, sweat and tears. Do not give away the most valuable thing in your life.