As this thing continues to wind its way through, and I know she is continuing to see Mr. Wonderful, I get angry at what she is about to put our kids through.
I sooooo want to confront her to let her know I know she's a 2x 2-timing (insert your term here). But I know that would be self-destructive to myself in the long run.
So, for those of you who are going through this, or have gone through this, how did you keep from confronting her while the proceedings were on-going? Yeah, I spend lots of time with the kids (more than she does), coach, have taken a vacation with them, planning a fantastic get-away off the mainland for later, etc. But when I realize I won't get to spend such unimpeded time with them, all because she couldn't/wouldn't try to work things out rather than going after her next 'prize', and knowing how hurt it will make the kids, I get sad and mad, and just want to let it all fly at her (in a non-provocative, non-physical way, of course).
I hate this whole thing.
Audaces fortuna iuvat.
The meaning of life is Happiness. What makes you happy? - Dalai Lama
For a more peaceful life, live the serenity prayer.