You wouldn't send the boxes of discovery to the judge, you send it to OC. It's their business to handle that, not the judge.
Seems you might consider the ramifications of finding some structure, even if living again with your parents, coming to court, hat in hand, all cards on the table. If you did any financial shenanigans during your marriage, your STBX probably signed those same tax returns, so she's not a vestal virgin either.
"Personal density is directly proportional to temporal bandwidth."