BartSimpson wrote:Hello again, glad to see your new thread.
What are the current arrangements offered to see your son? At a mutual friends house, her parents house, or some third neutral location?
Remember I suggested you talk to someone about those feelings of rage, and the subset feelings about control; would you consider seeing a counselor to hash out the reality of your circumstances and coping mechanisms? Some of it is normal, and some of it is interfering with your functioning - a counselor could help you sort out what is normal and what is not.
What should I do first, arrange a visit with him or see the lawyer?
How soon are cases like this decided?
How can I overcome the mommy and baby bias?
How can I get overnights as soon as possible, so that I can show the courts I can care for him from morning til night?
Should I start contributing money for medical or diapers? Should I just buy the stuff or give her the money?
Things were looking pretty bleak for me and I know I seemed like a stubburn a-hole to many if not most of you. Geting excited now that I feel like might still have a little control over my future.
BartSimpson wrote: the first visit should include your family or a friend as a witness, can you work that in? Someone who can chat up Grandma, and watch your back. Someone who can tell you it's time to go, and you will go.
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