wcd9973 wrote:I do have it where parenting time is automaticly reviewed in 2 years - at which time I figure the NJ will have a full time job. Just venting I guess....
There, I fixed that for 'ya.
< parenting time > is not a word thats well received here, sounds too much like seeing a prisoner in jail.
My concern here would be the precedent that your setting. Having a 2 year review seems like a good idea but what is going to be the reason for change in 2 years? I would have looked at getting alot closer to 50/50 to start as I think your going to be in trouble if your NJ decides she wants to go strictly by the decree.
I would document all the extra time you have now in the hopes that during the review period you can make a change to get closer to the 50/50 mark. Keeping the status quo being the main point.
Remember how you used to see your kids every single day and now you don't and more importantly, can't due to a court order? Remember how she caused that to happen. -TeflonDad