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Re: not enough disposable income to pay alimoni

Unread postby Vali » Wed Nov 01, 2017 4:06 pm

Moving was a big mistake, I was so stressed and upset and wanted to get a way, thinking about a fresh start. I regret it now.
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Re: not enough disposable income to pay alimoni

Unread postby a dad » Wed Nov 01, 2017 4:21 pm

Use this as an opportunity to find a place between or within the school zones of your kids elementary, middle, and soon, high schools. Within walking distance would be ideal.
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Re: not enough disposable income to pay alimoni

Unread postby Tom Kirkpatrick » Wed Nov 01, 2017 11:34 pm

Vali wrote:Snohomish County.
While not King Co, it's still greater Seattle area. The courts are more liberal here than east of the Cascades. That translates into an uphill battle to get a more favorable outcome.

Vali wrote:I'm paying medical insurance for.....her.....
She'll hafta get her own medical insurance when divorce is finalized.
Meanwhile, for your kids, you'll want to orchestrate a 50/50 out-of-pocket split for all things related to medical: insurance premium; co-pays; unreimbursed; uninsured; etc.

Vali wrote:I did not appeal that decision within 10 days.
Why not??
Was this a bona-fide judge?? Or was it something of a non-judge??.....like a commissioner or magistrate??

Vali wrote:This temporary order is reviewable after 90 days……Right now I can only visit with them a few hours 2 times a week.
A convicted felon living within commuting distance can get EOW and a mid-week dinner. I'd say it's time to get that "review."

Vali wrote:What do I do?
Nothing will change until something changes.
You've gotta file pleadings to get the ball rolling. The sooner you do that, the better.
Also, living in the same school district allows you to "be there" for your kids.
If you move to the same school district, in terms of long-term strategy, you should be thinking ROFR.

Vali wrote:Will probably get a place by mid November. I can start having kids overnight then, if STBX will allow.
You should be keeping a well-written journal and a parenting time tracker. Document everything, including her parenting time refusals.

Vali wrote:She is trying everything she can to turn kids against me.
Stop blaming her. You’re the one that moved away from your kids.

Vali wrote:As a part of a family law I can not enter her residence.
Who told you that?? Charges were dismissed.
Does she have Exclusive Use and Occupancy of the marital residence??

Vali wrote:My wife has only worked part time…..Judge imputed her income at $16…..
I presume that’s $16/hr @ 40 hrs/wk, right??
BTW - The WA court expects able-bodied women to maintain full time employment.

Vali wrote:I will take any advice how to create a "well-orchestrated game plan."
Read The List. Learn from your mistakes. Then build a list of your own.
http://forum.dadsdivorce.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=13374

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Re: not enough disposable income to pay alimoni

Unread postby Vali » Sun Nov 05, 2017 1:30 pm

Thank you, Tom
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Re: not enough disposable income to pay alimoni

Unread postby a dad » Sun Nov 05, 2017 5:55 pm

Are you moving within the school zones?
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