She really hadn't asked much about finances nor had I. I think simple observation was in place. I am clearly am in better financial condition, but have had years to get there. Really no mystery in it.
It was her idea to move in here. I wasn't against it until she felt the need to "run the financial show."
The only mystery to me is how bad of shape she might be in, but it really doesn't matter now. I'm moving on.
I'm off to the gym. "Weight training" therapy is my medicine.
“There are those that look at things the way they are, and ask why? I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?”