Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby Tom Kirkpatrick » Mon Feb 13, 2017 12:24 pm

UknowY wrote:We're 45% me 55% her.....
Who told you this?? This is not 45%. Far from it. What you have is EOW.

In this game, it's overnights that count.

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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby UknowY » Mon Feb 13, 2017 12:39 pm

Tom Kirkpatrick wrote:
UknowY wrote:We're 45% me 55% her.....
Who told you this?? This is not 45%. Far from it. What you have is EOW.

In this game, it's overnights that count.

Tom


What's EOW? Thank you.
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby BartSimpson » Mon Feb 13, 2017 1:01 pm

Not even.

Every other weekend would be from the time school let's out on friday to the time school resumes on monday.

You have worse than every other weekend. And State Guidelines would give you a dinner night during the week, every week.
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby UknowY » Mon Feb 13, 2017 1:42 pm

I haven't signed anything yet, with the parenting schedule. But, I have a meeting re: finances in a couple of days. If I don't hear what I want, then, everything is on the table again. My lawyer mentioned she did not disclose pension funds. Oops :mrgreen:
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby Fatheroffour » Mon Feb 13, 2017 1:49 pm

Money >parenting time?
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby Trevor » Mon Feb 13, 2017 2:11 pm

Popcorn time.
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby Tom Kirkpatrick » Mon Feb 13, 2017 2:16 pm

UknowY wrote:
Tom Kirkpatrick wrote:
UknowY wrote:We're 45% me 55% her.....
Who told you this?? This is not 45%. Far from it. What you have is EOW.

In this game, it's overnights that count.

Tom


What's EOW? Thank you.
every other weekend.

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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby UknowY » Mon Feb 13, 2017 2:45 pm

My regular schedule, which is only a parenting plan proposal right now, goes like this:
Rotating two week schedule:

Wk. 1 (no weekend)
    5:00 pm pick up on Tuesday
    Wednesday all day
    (Overnight Wednesday)
    Drop off Thursday a.m.

Wk.2 (weekend)
    5:00 pm pick up on Tuesday
    (overnight Tuesday)
    6:00 pm drop off Wednesday
    5:00 pm pick up on Friday
    Through Sunday 3 pm - drop off 3:00 pm
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby BartSimpson » Mon Feb 13, 2017 2:59 pm

How's it going there? Are you getting the idea we think you are getting screwed over parenting time?
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Re: Collaborative approach seemingly not working so far

Unread postby UknowY » Mon Feb 13, 2017 3:04 pm

BartSimpson wrote:How's it going there? Are you getting the idea we think you are getting screwed over parenting time?


That's clear, yes. I'm staying and she's going. Do I buy her out?
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