North Carolina, Left home in September. Renting a place. She's in the home has put power bill in her name, I'm still making house payment. We both draw SS, she is half of mine as spouse can draw. I draw a separate pension of 8C. I'm a year older than she. House equity note for 30K, value on tax book 146K. Mediation this week, always from the beginning separate bank account's. I know she is going for the house and the 30K in my 401. Two cars she does not drive. NC 50-50 no fault state. She has told her lawyer all kind of BS. We could not even talk about a separation agreement at all, now we both have lawyer's. I think trading my equity in the house is fair enough to settle, Am I right? I'm 69 she is 68.