cntrygrlmel wrote:I do not however understand why it is so important that he be the one to post.
1. Because he knows the whole story; you may not. Like it or not, there's nuance and history and stuff he may not have shared with you, virtuous and perfect as your love may be.
2. You are not part of the court case. They're not your kids.
3. If a father isn't the one taking the lead in handling his own business, observers have a right to make reasonable conclusions based on that evidence.
4. Part of that evidence is your defensive reaction and taking your football and going home, rather than getting his butt to the forums himself.
This one's run its course.