Manage your lawyer. Tell her that you want a letter drafted in regards to the reduction since it has ben 80 days and also retroactive to the date of filing. Just because she has a law degeree does not mean squat. You pay her fees and you manage your case. If you choose to let her run you over then that is your fault.
Men who fear becoming fathers dont understand that fathering is not something perfect men do but something that perfects the man. Its like an aged man reclining under the shadow of an oak he planted.