It's going to be difficult. In my case, I didn't have to do much research to show that NJ lied. Most of my evidence is from older court records and bills NJ has submitted in court.higherroad wrote:anyway to spin this when we go in front of judge in a couple weeks to get her to pay expenses?
If you're giving the full amount of CS and NJ still can't afford your kids, I'd petition for full custody because your ex can't support them financially.
thoughts - how do you get their cc statements. if you get them from her she can just give you the clean ones. can you get a credit check done that lists all of her cards? is there anything else besides cc that i should look to get. what about the fact that she spend 3k in rent and 750 on car payments but wont pay for her kids expenses because she is living way beyond her means. is that an argument?
kmich91261 wrote:What I find compelling (i.e. when they say they are too poor to pay for anything) is when in one breath they say they are too poor but in the very next sentence talk about going to the casino, gambling, and drinking the night before. Ah, okay so you can gamble but cant afford anything else Something doesn't fit. Fits my NJ to a tee.
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