Fatheroffour wrote:^^^^Wow, such stunningly horrible advice is pretty rare around here.
Lol, the shock route,
I will offer a twist, OP are predictable, NJ has been poisoning these young minds, you Sir need to up the ante, you have ask yourself what you are willing to do for them?
What KP is saying to redefine your image to the girls and negate image created by nj.
Remember, you will ZERO influence if you don't talk to your girls and don't get to see them. To beat nj one must elate oneself to Samurai nj!
1. Custody Evaluator: Be honest, that you were frustrated at Ds action, you want the best for your Ds and express your parenting concerns. Make you tell how sorry you are that you were frustrated. Ask for guidance on how to proceed to co-parent successfully avoid conflict.
Make sure you keep screen shots of the text sent in by D asking you to sign. Present said text to the CE person, ask if D should be involved in such negotiation by mother?
2. You lost and nj won when you lost your temper, ask how I know? nj spends every hour of the day brain washing these young minds, when they speak it is not them, it is nj. You have to have a game plan to do things, say things to reinforce your bond with them and seed ideas which negate what nj feeds them.
Take them out to a rock concert, go get your nails done with them.
First and foremost reach out to your Ds, Say how much you love them and say sorry for your actions. You have to not only mend but rebuild the bridge. It won't happen overnight, you need to be persistent.
Read what Tom posted, you should use it to go for more custody, yes, what nj is doing to the girls and damaging to them. She is putting them in the middle and not fostering love for both parents. nj is berating you to the girls.
Come up with a coherent story and work with your atty to come up with a motion.
Also include motion for reunification therapy for both girls and you.
Also include make up time..
Go on the offensive bro, you owe it to the Ds.