My daughter who has/still really good grades, but has had issues with kids in the past, decided to tell mom she is depressed and wanted to go on independent study. Something happened at school and she is not telling us. She basically has about three hours of homework a week now and does not much of anything else. She is now seeing a counselor once a week but I don't think she is depressed. I think its good that she is going. I think she is unhappy but not depressed. The school she went to was small, I told her we could change schools, but she doesn't want to go back to public school. Her mom doesn't really enforce any rules so I choose to try and parallel parent. I'm kind at a loss right now about what to do.