Why do they do that?

Parental Alienation, Malicious Mother Syndrome, dealing with the ex, and various other non-legal concerns throughout the process.

Why do they do that?

Postby Sandman » Thu May 05, 2005 8:53 am

Is it just my stbx or do all the ex's and stbx's start to look better the minute they are out of your life? My stbx is dressing sexier, letting her hair grow, starting to wear thong underwear (I saw her when she bent down to pick up our son :oops:) No, I'm not being naive, I'm sure she is doing the horizontal bop with some one (she is his problem now :D ) but damn! why do they do that!
Sandman
100+ Posts
 
Posts: 160
Joined: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:53 am

Postby CustodyIQ » Thu May 05, 2005 10:26 am

It's done to rub your face in what you lost.

If you're concerned, I think the proper response for you would be to accidentally drop a roll of hundred dollar bills and then nonchalantly pick it up and put it back in your pocket.
CustodyIQ
Moderator
 
Posts: 961
Joined: Mon Feb 28, 2005 5:04 pm
Location: 50/50 joint custody in California

Postby Sandman » Thu May 05, 2005 10:46 am

Especially after I get my new < hindquarters > implants :lol:
Thanks CustodyIQ
Sandman
100+ Posts
 
Posts: 160
Joined: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:53 am

Postby CBH'sDaddy » Thu May 05, 2005 10:49 am

Its true..........

This is what i do.......... Hit the Gym everyday and Make myself look better. ITs a good stress reliever. Remember its easier for a girl to get laid than us Men.
CBH'sDaddy
10+ Posts
 
Posts: 34
Joined: Fri Mar 18, 2005 1:27 pm
Location: Divorcing-Wants Custody

Must be!

Postby viperville » Thu May 05, 2005 10:56 am

Mine doesn't even look like the same girl. Of course money bought her some of the change. Money that came from the equity in our former home. Money well spent for her, money I can only imagine well spent for me. :D
viperville
100+ Posts
 
Posts: 114
Joined: Tue Apr 19, 2005 8:28 am

Postby Trevor » Thu May 05, 2005 11:28 am

I suppose I am lucky that mine looks worse now. She was doing the extramarital thing, in part due to a weight loss program and feeling more "marketable" I suppose (and she did look better then). She started wearing clothes too small for her body and too "young" for her age. Now that I am gone she seems to be realizing what she's lost. There will be no sex with the ex.
Trevor
Moderator
 
Posts: 18745
Joined: Mon Jan 31, 2005 8:55 pm

Postby Lawmoe » Thu May 05, 2005 11:22 pm

SUGGESTION: When you start thinking of your ex in that way and see the body, remember the head of the hydra that caused the divorcce. There is generally not enough alohol to make one go back to that.
Lawmoe
Moderator
 
Posts: 5405
Joined: Sat Jan 15, 2005 9:26 am
Location: Minnesota

Postby Sandman » Fri May 06, 2005 7:59 am

Thong update.....STBX did not have a thong on this morning (a least I don't think she did) when she came to pick up our son. She was dressed in a much more reserved fashion....sweat pants and shirt. Maybe she knows that I'm on to her :D I asked her yesterday who the dental floss undies were for.
Sandman
100+ Posts
 
Posts: 160
Joined: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:53 am

Postby TooNice » Fri May 06, 2005 8:26 am

Lawmoe wrote:SUGGESTION: When you start thinking of your ex in that way and see the body, remember the head of the hydra that caused the divorcce. There is generally not enough alohol to make one go back to that.


This is exactly why I'm documenting EVERY incident from the past I can remember. That way whenever I get a dose of eye-candy, I can go read about the time I got chewed out because HER dog puked on the carpet. Or her planning our divorce for YEARS behind my back. Or her running up the credit cards. Or ......
TooNice
100+ Posts
 
Posts: 179
Joined: Wed Apr 13, 2005 7:32 am
Location: 50/50 in OH

Postby Sandman » Fri May 06, 2005 8:52 am

To continue with TooNice's comments...how about chewing too loud or not folding the laundry properly.
Sandman
100+ Posts
 
Posts: 160
Joined: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:53 am

Next

Return to Parenting - Child Custody Forum and Child Support Forum

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: Google [Bot] and 12 guests