Settlement proposal vs RFO

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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Outis » Sat Aug 12, 2017 11:50 am

Can you currently make a case at trial for 50/50? Are you fully prepared for that?
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Cosette » Sun Aug 13, 2017 12:54 am

What is required to have 50/50 ? I believe I have everything but it's not gonna happen in one session with this judge... it looks like I'm gonna need to be in court many times if I want to get 50/50, which will just be ongoing fight, battle and BS...
Truth is, custody should start at 50/50 and reduced / modified if a parent keep screwing up not the other way around... Fathers starting with crap and having to fight their asses off to get a LITTLE more time is shameful for our "MODERN and EDUCATED" society, it doesn't take 20% of a man and 80% of a woman to conceive a child.
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Outis » Sun Aug 13, 2017 1:58 am

Cosette wrote: it looks like I'm gonna need to be in court many times if I want to get 50/50, which will just be ongoing fight, battle and BS...

Sounds like you answered your own question then.

Was the current schedule in place before the allegations, or due to the allegations?
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Fatheroffour » Sun Aug 13, 2017 6:30 am

What is required to have 50/50 ?


Generally, status quo of approximately equal involvement and a fair minded judge are the two major factors.
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Cosette » Sun Aug 13, 2017 10:51 am

status quo was established before Temp order.
Forget the allegations, which were post temp order, it was BS and not in STBX favor.
Fair minded judge is the issue... Therefore, settlement proposal, RFO or trial?
Or ask for a different judge? If so, what's the process?
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Fatheroffour » Sun Aug 13, 2017 11:17 am

From the original post.

Commissioner made it clear an RFO was needed to change custody.


As far as getting a new judge, judge shopping should occur before they've ruled on anything.
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Cosette » Sun Aug 13, 2017 4:01 pm

You mean that I should reject this judge and request another one before going back to court? Please be specific, everything is already confusing.
Is this easy to do ? recommended ?
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Re: Settlement proposal vs RFO

Unread postby Outis » Sun Aug 13, 2017 4:31 pm

Probably too late to change judges. File the RFO for 50/50 temp custody.
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