Just my attitude on this board.Havalu7 wrote:Must be the altitude on board the Enterprise!
Chaos wrote:Chasbo wrote:I'm certainly not rushing into anything. My belief in the institution of marriage is not high but I also see the value of being in a team pushing towards a common goal.
I can handle the emotional bs. I will pull the rip cord at the first sign of insanity. She knows that. Between my dad and my x wife, I've had my share of deranged behavior. I am snipped and financially independent - so no hostages this time. Marriage or no marriage, I will bail quickly if I need to.
It's not an imminent thing. But it's a possibility and my question was how to protect myself going forward . A prenuptial and honest money conversations should do it I think.
I mean, do they have vows that cover this situation? Why get married if that's how you're going into it?
afc wrote:Probably helps that Im a boring old fart who married another boring old fart. Plenty of money from both sides and kids are all raised and self sufficient. Two of the stressors of marriage - money and child rearing just aren't factors.
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