Remarrying

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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby lovingfatherof2 » Mon Mar 06, 2017 12:37 pm

I used to be that way too, not anymore.
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby gamingdad » Mon Mar 06, 2017 1:30 pm

Congrats!
Keep your balls out of her dresser drawer and remember that she has a divorce as well so you both are gonna stumble though this.
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby Chasbo » Mon Mar 06, 2017 3:10 pm

I'm certainly not rushing into anything. My belief in the institution of marriage is not high but I also see the value of being in a team pushing towards a common goal.

I can handle the emotional bs. I will pull the rip cord at the first sign of insanity. She knows that. Between my dad and my x wife, I've had my share of deranged behavior. I am snipped and financially independent - so no hostages this time. Marriage or no marriage, I will bail quickly if I need to.

It's not an imminent thing. But it's a possibility and my question was how to protect myself going forward . A prenuptial and honest money conversations should do it I think.
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby gamingdad » Mon Mar 06, 2017 3:28 pm

As well as expectations. Assumptions cause alot of issues I have found.
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby jumanji » Tue Mar 07, 2017 8:22 pm

I'll offer my opinion, like it or not, as a (divorced) woman. IF I were to remarry, as a parent, I would want a pre-nup to protect MY assets for MY kids (and myself). I would expect my prospective partner would want the same. I don't think that is unreasonable on either side. I'm jaded enough to understand that forever ..... isn't.

Not that I intend to remarry...
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby RC411V » Wed Mar 08, 2017 12:15 pm

I have four kids and I think I'm going to get married again. But third time is going to be the charm. I just know it.
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby Havalu7 » Wed Mar 08, 2017 12:18 pm

Congrats Chasbo....

No more Chasbo school of dating advice?
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby Mock Turtle » Thu Mar 09, 2017 2:17 am

Chasbo wrote:Any further suggestions are appreciated to safeguard me and her
Safeguard against what exactly?

The only advice I can offer is make sure you two have absolutely nothing in common so if you get divorced it will be super easy to figure out who gets what and why you got divorced.
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby Havalu7 » Thu Mar 09, 2017 11:04 am

Was that Mock's mic dropping I just heard?

Damn you are funny as hell Mock. Must be the altitude on board the Enterprise!
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Re: Remarrying

Unread postby Chaos » Thu Mar 09, 2017 11:50 am

Chasbo wrote:I'm certainly not rushing into anything. My belief in the institution of marriage is not high but I also see the value of being in a team pushing towards a common goal.

I can handle the emotional bs. I will pull the rip cord at the first sign of insanity. She knows that. Between my dad and my x wife, I've had my share of deranged behavior. I am snipped and financially independent - so no hostages this time. Marriage or no marriage, I will bail quickly if I need to.

It's not an imminent thing. But it's a possibility and my question was how to protect myself going forward . A prenuptial and honest money conversations should do it I think.


I mean, do they have vows that cover this situation? Why get married if that's how you're going into it?
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