Starting to date, ready but nervous

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Starting to date, ready but nervous

Unread postby Whiskey619 » Sat Apr 15, 2017 7:34 am

I had a really hard time after the divorce, and ended up unemployed for write a while. I would have gone some dating during that time but thought I being able to pay for a date, and condoms, would be a good idea. Now I'm worried for a few reasons 1) I'm in my 30s and moist of the ladies my age still want t their own kids, 2) it's been 15 years since my last first date, and 3) it's been two years since the last time I got laid, so I feel like ill perform like a born again virgin when those opportunities come along.

You guys have any thoughts, within or other ideas you can post my way?

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Re: Starting to date, ready but nervous

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sat Apr 15, 2017 7:47 am

Do you think a divorce forum should discuss dating when there are so many dating forums already?
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Re: Starting to date, ready but nervous

Unread postby JimRockford » Sat Apr 15, 2017 11:35 am

I guess you could start watching porn and take good notes. I also hope you can afford the condoms now, or maybe you could make a deal with your date upfront, that you will buy dinner if she buys the condoms. Don't forget to tell her that although you may be out of practice, that you have put yourself back up to speed with all that porn that you have been watching.

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Re: Starting to date, ready but nervous

Unread postby spritom » Thu Apr 20, 2017 5:33 pm

I think of Richard the Daytona 500...1988
Here's the video (20 seconds)
Then 5 minutes after getting out of the car is it wise for Richard Petty to say "Yeah! Let's jump right in another car and race some more today!"
Not so much.

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Check your bearings - Get your land-legs back
Be comfortable with just yourself for a bit
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