Fatheroffour wrote:Frankly I'm uneasy with the curbside drop offs. A friend has recommended the same but it feels too close.
I've seen this a lot here over the years and it doesnt make sense to me. Dont want her at my house, always causes drama and so on.
My take on it is simple fear. Scared of her.
For that very reason I believe home is best. You can have your driveway and curbside lit up like a Christmas tree, covered by HD cameras being recorded with Dolby surround sound audio if you want. Time stamped and everything. You are at/in your home , totally protected and if there is drama to unfold there is the overwhelming legal presumption that she is the one that is causing trouble and must leave.
Home field advantage is a thing.
True, and it is for this reason other's have recommended the curb as the way to go. Back when there was a TRO I didn't want to be anywhere near her. I sure didn't want to drive by her place and give her an opportunity.
I could suggest it. She will balk however, because she's renting two rooms in the home and doesn't want me to find out since she's concerned about that income lowering her CS/SS. It could be a fun email exchange though...