A few weeks after divorce, and a guy I suspected there was something with is always at what used to be my house. He is doing some work is the story for now but I of course suspect more. I don't want to trade places with him, she is no prize to me any longer. But hearing my five-year-old daughter talk about him is well, I guess I don't have to describe how it feels because that's why I am here, because you guys know. How did you handle similar things? I've tried to not ask questions about that house, I try to not be in contact with my ex unless I have to. I need to get over the marriage. Do I even say anything if he is already staying the night? Or does it serve absolutely no purpose to tell her she's a bad parent because she clearly doesn't care.
I was strong down the stretch run of the divorce. Stuff like this I sort of didn't think about ahead of time.
I have my daughter more than my ex does. I am having a great time with her and spoiling her with love and attention. That needs to remain my focus. I think I just feel embarrassed, stupid and overall angry at her. But I don't think acting out on any of those is any good.