I've been married three times now (sigh) for the last 28 or so years. Now I am living alone and I have no idea how to .. live? Is there a system that newly single guys can get that help us to remember all the things we need to do, how to organize, get into a routine.. stuff like that? Everything is so up in the air and chaotic. I have a budget, but I don't stick to it. I don't really have much of a social life. I've been through the dark times, the serious suicidal stuff, the depression, the loneliness, the job loss, the loss of a family member, started drinking, got into the sexual side of things and have emerged from it all still alive.
I'm no longer in the self destructive behavior but, being a guy with lingering depression issues (seeing a doctor, am on meds), and with ADD... it's hard to force myself to come up with a routine and a schedule and it is soooo overwhelming. I love my kids, but I have to force myself to see them or even to get out sometimes. It's almost lethargic or maybe just laziness.
Anyone else get this way?
Thanks for reading.