3 years later

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3 years later

Unread postby bigDoodle66 » Wed Feb 01, 2017 7:53 pm

So it has been over 3 years divorced for me and I wanted to share an update to my friends on here.

I had a short marriage (2 years) with one D2 (5 now). We settled on 50/50 30 minutes before trial although I pay max CS in NY.

My Ex and I had a tough relationship for the first 2 years, but have settled down nicely since then. We more co-parent now than parallel parent, which is greatly helping our daughter. I never thought we would be doing that, but we are. She has given me extra time when I have had family in town and on various occasions when I have asked. I have done the same for her.

On a personal side, I got married last year to a wonderful woman and we just welcomed our first daughter together 2 weeks ago. My ex picked out some nice clothes with our D5 for us. We both called and thanked her. My wife brought an amazing S5, so I now am a proud parent of 3.

Life couldn't be better for me and I owe most of that to the great help in this community. I urge and encourage all new guys who think there is no life after divorce to take a deep breath and realize that there certainly is! Keep you head up and always maintain your dignity no matter how tough it is.
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Re: 3 years later

Unread postby BartSimpson » Thu Feb 02, 2017 8:23 am

Stopping by myself to say hello and that I'm glad things are working out for you.

It was a real challenge just a few years ago. Be well.
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Re: 3 years later

Unread postby MIdadof4 » Thu Feb 02, 2017 5:45 pm

Sounds as if life is good doodle!
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Re: 3 years later

Unread postby benjyedwards » Mon Feb 06, 2017 6:07 pm

Great message. Apparently there are some reasonable divorced women out there. :-)

Happy for you.
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Re: 3 years later

Unread postby Phoenix853 » Thu Feb 09, 2017 1:07 pm

Great news Doodle, Really great for you D5 and you.
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