FlyGuySLO wrote:Where are you personally on this? Are you happy you are divorced, or did you want to stay married? How are you doing in life in general?
Thanks for the advice, initially I didn't want the divorce or separation but at this point I'm ok with it. I have for the most part gotten over what we had together and just want to live my own life now free of relationship problems and focus on me and my son. I got a bit emotional after hearing the news, not because I want another child with her or anything, but it brought up some memory of the pregnancy with our son. I'm getting a lot of help moving forward in my life and I'm taking care of my emotional and spiritual well-being so I'd say I've come a long ways in dealing with the trauma of the divorce. I'm slowly getting back into things I used to enjoy and being more optimistic. I guess the pregnancy doesn't bother me too much, there's just a slight feeling in there somewhere but nothing huge. I'm more wondering where does this take us as co-parents.
Phoenix853 wrote:Woooo hoooo, got out in the nick of time.
lol I heard that wooo hooo in my head as I read that. She has always been one to work into things very fast. I sure hope I could get any extra time through this. She is definitely going to have a full plate, her new bf is very young as well, just turned of drinking age, so it will be something new for him as well. It got to me a little last night but I'm ok now. It's going to be weird seeing another baby come out of her, just odd, not sure how to explain it.
S7 seems happy to have a sibling on the way, mother surely is hyping it up, so well, I guess if he's happy then that's a plus.
Hope she doesn't get postpartum again. She nearly died giving birth to s7 and I wouldn't wish anything like that onto her, I hope it goes well, in all honesty.