Absolutely no dating until divorce is finalized. A full year after divorce would be better. NJ wants to see you suffer.hferreiras wrote:I have two children in common with my ex, boy (9) and girl(10). We divorce 3 years ago, right after i used to pickup the children weekends. But after i started dating she (mother) gave me hard time, things like: telling where to take the kids and where not to and so on. I told her let create an schedule and agreement and she refuse.
I took her to court thinking that court would help. First day in court she told me i don't understand why we here court is not going to help you.
Now two years later from the first court date. We still in court probably next court date will be last. But ever since we in court, she prevent me from seen or speaking with kids, making false allegation and using the kids social media to insult me. Things like: Daddy we don't love you. Your are not a good dad. I understand i can easily block as i have on Instagram and left Facebook unblock in case they want to communicate with me one day. I completely ignore her messages coming from social media. Now the question is: whats is best advice anyone can give me on how to handle this situation.
Then you have nothing. You need to establish paternity thru proper channels, namely family court. Are you willing to do that?? Do you realize what's involved??hferreiras wrote:.....no parenting plan beside verbally.....
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