Homer Simpson wrote:Any thoughts or suggestions? Thanks
Which state did she file??.....in MI??.....or MO?? When it comes to post-majority child support, there's a difference.Homer Simpson wrote:Ok, brief history. 6 years ago I had an affair. My wife found out about it, I ended the affair, we worked on us and I thought everything was going OK. A year ago she tells me she isn't sure where we are going, etc. She filed for D it was final last Sept. She originally was from the St. Louis area, and wanted to move closer to her family. I didn't want to fight during the D, so I said I would move as well to stay close to the kids. So I found a job, moved down we got the house sold, etc. My ex and I live about 20 minutes from each other now. All is well with the ex, for that I am grateful. The house we were living in, in Michigan had been in my family for over 50 years. It's the house I grew up in. So after moving I have no friends or family close by. With what I pay in child support I don't really have any spare cash. In fact I'm hoping to start a second part time job to have some spending money.
I've dated a couple ladies, one turned out not pleasant. The other I thought we had something, and that went south out of nowhere. She had been dating guys that were < Holes > by the sounds of it, so when I was telling her she looked nice, buying dinner, it was all new for her. I think she got scared and didn't know how to handle being treated like she should've been all along. She has since told me I was clingy, needy, etc. I can see how it may appear that way. I have no one else here so what do you expect? The other part of this equation is I have my kids half the time, so when neither of us had kids yes I wanted to see her. This was usually every other Wednesday, and every other Sunday afternoon.
So I guess when two people have kids schedules to work around, resulting in a few times to see each other what else can you do? We texted and talked a lot. It wasn't one sided either.
I have since met another lady and she is terrific. She has kids as well and I don't want the same thing to happen again. Any thoughts or suggestions? Thanks
Does this mean you have a court-ordered parenting plan for 50/50??Homer Simpson wrote:.....I have my kids half the time.....
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