Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sun Jan 08, 2017 9:58 am

Hoot - Are you saying the advice I provide now to the man in the potential BPD situation is inadequate?

Since I have written it thousands of times, do you recall what it is?
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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sun Jan 08, 2017 10:11 am

So, do you use social media?
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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sun Jan 08, 2017 10:32 am

Two degrees of separation is different from participating in Social Media.

Direct question: Do you have a Facebook account?
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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sun Jan 08, 2017 10:43 am

Therein my dilemma. I can't even get you to take the most basic steps toward dealing with this issue. It's so simple, yet so hard.
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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sun Jan 08, 2017 11:06 am

Social media is fungus, BPD is the cellulose. Any wonder why Social Media has been so successful and popular with the ladies, while the numbers of Cluster B disorders have increased?

Some fungi are good, yeast makes bread. Others fungi ferment, and many more are quietly toxic to our lives, such as the black mold that feeds on cellulose.

You can prevent the fungus; but if you allow it, you can't control the available food sources.
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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby Trevor » Sun Jan 08, 2017 3:32 pm

Yes you should.
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Re: Dealing with BPD Targets on these Threads

Unread postby Tom Kirkpatrick » Mon Jan 09, 2017 1:51 pm

hoot74 wrote:I ask the senior members to watch these two videos.....
I'm on it, Bro.

I started watching last night. Pretty intense.

Childress explains a number of things that I went through with my NJ. Try as I might, there was nothing I could do.

Virtually predictable; a broken childhood, sooner or later, yields a broken adult; and eventually a broken marriage. And the moment divorce is filed, the genie comes out of the bottle. And when left untreated, NJ behavior is passed on to the next generation.

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