Havalu7 wrote:Maybe even a bun in the oven by Christmas.
Listen guys ... I get it. I'm not dating anyone. Frankly, I don't want to right now. Any relationships I have are going to last 6 seconds at best.
I know the response to expect..... but .....
I have been chatting with a woman that is separated. She and I seem to be in the same place. Both done with our previous relationship and think that we are ready to move on with life. We've been honest with eachother and agreed to go on a date. Something simple to start. And we agreed that if it last 5 minutes, so be it. If it is to soon, so be it ... the date just stops. We both need to try this out to see if we are where we think we are. Either one of us can say, I think it's to early and move on. To be honest, I think we could end up being good friends that can help eachother out since few others around us need to have our emotions dumped on them. And we seem to be in VERY SIMILAR places in life so we could literally be good friends for each other. Friends are awesome but avoiding the divorce topic is best to keep friends.
I have a psychologist. And I know I might be jumping the gun (separated 7 months). But at the same time I'm 40 and don't feel like waiting around forever. I'm just starting to get out there and enjoy my new normal and that is what scares me slightly. I don't have my new normal in place yet. But I am finally starting to find it.
I am done letting my divorce control my life. I am going to take over my life and do what I want in my free time and get to my new normal. Regarding me, I am going for a hike and hitting up the hobby store near the hike to get my S12 his RC truck for x-mas. I can't focus on my kids when I don't have them 100% of the time. Doing that has only caused me mental anguish and sadness.
I like Match ..... JUST LOOKING!!!!!
The women tend to tell you who they are. There is no < bovine scat >. And at 40, I think everyone knows that someone that is an exercise fanatic that can't sit down will not work out with a lazy movie buff. And with kids, you can squash talking almost immediately if you both are unwilling to move ever. I have kids, I know that I will probably need to date women that are hyper local. And that is fine.
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