Chasbo wrote:So asking for advice here or anywhere will get you the best practice in most common situations. You need to have the ability to judge your own situation.
Having said that, screwing a woman specifically so that your son can get a friend is at the least incredibly weird☺️
Going through a divorce, I get the craziness that can occur. I don't think post divorce I could date a separated woman (unless there was a very good reason) and I think I understand why divorced women generally don't want to date separated guys.
Regarding the quoted piece. Regarding sentence 1, I have a psychologist for that
Regarding sentence 2, think of it this way. 20 years ago I found this initially attractive:
2) decent face (models not required)
3) not fat
4) nice boobies
5) nice < hindquarters >
7) NO KIDS
Today, I find the same things attractive but I can add the following:
7) (modified from above) Has no kids and wants one at most.
8) Has kids and doesn't want more
8a) Under this scenario, I find women with kids closer to my kids ages more attractive.
8b) Under this scenario, I find women with kids not near my kids ages less attractive.
I'm not saying that I is required. I'm just saying that I find it more attractive.
We'll have to see where time and fate take me though.
I'm just saying, with my state of life I find certain things attractive more so than I did 20 years ago.