You guys know this story all too well. Despite the adultery, the perjury and the bf who is a pd addict, she got the children and I got a $1350/month CS bill. No alimony, but at $1350 a month who needs it in the deep south?
I have every Wed. and EOW which I cherish. I only care about the safety and well being of my children.
She has a masters degree, but does not seek a job. The BF is one of these fellows who is always laying out of work with disability claims etc. (Doesn't go to work at all.)
His own daughter (the BF's) refuses to see him because he makes her very uncomfortable (no more details). DHR in that part of the state is overwhelmed and don’t do anything to help her situation. I am concerned about my children.
I hired a PI and have her on multiple contempt charges (overnight guest OS - the BF of course). That hasn’t gone to court yet.
I think they (X and BF) are now either engaged or married. She tells me nothing. The D has been final for about 4 months.
The judge ordered her to reside in the county we live in, she is here about 2 days a week.
My children are very young (both <4).
I guess I just wanted to vent, but if you have any ideas, let me know. My attorney is good, but tells me we shouldn’t expect much because this is the same stuff she was doing while we were married and the judge gave her the children (Joint, but she has physical).
Get her on contempt, then she is going to tell the judge they are engaged or married, etc. She will say “she didn’t think she had to tell me.”
I just want my children to be safe.
I'm not "happynow"