Moving back in

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Moving back in

Unread postby Lion1234 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 6:59 pm

Continuing from viewtopic.php?f=8&t=80085

Moved back in today after being away for 2 1/2 months

Emailed the wife. She freaked out as expected. Threats were thrown in my direction. She's back tomorrow from Florida.
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby lionel2013 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 7:02 pm

Excellent. Hang in there bro. You have way more balls than I did back then.

... But I didn't have to have bigger balls because back then, despite other mistakes I made, I resisted her calls for me to move out. So she moved out ...

Be that as it may, stay strong.
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby Havalu7 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 7:05 pm

Great job we are pulling for ya!
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby Lion1234 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 7:12 pm

Thanks a lot for support, I need it.

I am aware of what she MIGHT do, hopefully she’ll wake up tomorrow with a clearer head. Odds of that are not great though.

Kids are very happy, at least I have that.
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby Havalu7 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 7:16 pm

And you have you DAR humming along 24-7 yes?
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby Lion1234 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 7:25 pm

Once she’s back, yes. Funny thing is she wanted me to pick her up from the airport. That was before I told her.
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby Lion1234 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 8:44 pm

I am somewhat worried she might go for the TRO. Anyone had any experience with those? Any pointers?
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sat Jan 06, 2018 8:46 pm

Review the application for a TRO, it’s available online. You will notice certain language is used to create the circumstances for application, watch for her to use those same words with you in future conversations.
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby dadforever » Sat Jan 06, 2018 9:01 pm

How did she freak out? Via email? Whatever it is, save it- forever.
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Re: Moving back in

Unread postby Lion1234 » Sat Jan 06, 2018 9:10 pm

She called after I send the email. She couldn’t understand if I came back just for the weekend (I have he kids and we were staying in NY). I kept saying “I came back because I want to be with my children.” When she finally understood, it was “you can’t, you moved out.” I just kept saying we’ll talk when you get home. Last thing I heard was something like “just you wait.”
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