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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby Trevor » Sat Dec 09, 2017 10:30 am

While you're at it, every time I see this thread I think of Mohammad Ali. Can you fix that too?
"Personal density is directly proportional to temporal bandwidth."
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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby fisher_dad » Sat Dec 09, 2017 11:37 pm

Gamingdad saw it.

Bart, your posts are great. Jim? Sure.
I tried to put the state in the title based on one of your old posts sir.

Thanks Camp, that's a pretty good light at the end of the tunnel and it's good to hear about it really happening.

If I can change the title, sure.
You get what you put up with.

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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby BartSimpson » Sun Dec 10, 2017 10:09 am

You tried too hard, the State was not apparent in your title. I told you that in my first replies.

Is this user name specific to this forum and you have never used it before?
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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby fisher_dad » Mon Dec 11, 2017 8:10 pm

Yea a bit.
Specific, I try to be careful..
You get what you put up with.

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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby BartSimpson » Mon Dec 11, 2017 8:46 pm

Good. Not trying to bust you on it, but we are self-policing to help each other avoid discovery.

How’s it going tonight?
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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby fisher_dad » Tue Dec 12, 2017 12:00 am

Thanks Bart. I'm all right man.
Keeping on keeping on here despite the usual static from NJ.
You get what you put up with.

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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby Trevor » Tue Dec 12, 2017 12:19 am

You will soon train yourself to ignore her and filter out the noise. You are setting boundaries, and at some point she will learn where they are. You are also going to be concealing your goat, so she can no longer get to it. You may consider reading up on emotional intelligence, as sharpening those skills will help you through the rough patches, help with all of the above, and set you on a solid path to re-creating yourself as Dad 2.0. But let's not get too far ahead of ourselves.
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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby LovingDadof2 » Tue Dec 12, 2017 7:46 am

OP, I am not sure why you are not heading the advice you are getting here from Bart? Please go change your username to something stronger and more positive. Also, go change the title of this thread to make it more readable and make the State clear. Do this now, OK?

You need to make changes in your life, etc. and it can all start right here and now with this thread. Take that first step...
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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby BartSimpson » Tue Dec 12, 2017 9:27 am

Are you watching this thread?

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Re: Bearing it ALl

Unread postby fisher_dad » Wed Dec 13, 2017 12:00 am

Done.

Thanks for the reference Bart. I had not seen that one.
You get what you put up with.

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