How do you cope with the loneliness?

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Re: How do you cope with the loneliness?

Unread postby Havalu7 » Mon Nov 06, 2017 1:55 pm

OP have you made an effort to check out the Smart Recovery that has been suggested for you?

The AA or Alanon thing has worked for some too. Just get yourself some help; you don't have to dive into the deep end every time you go to the pool. Meaning if you try the Smart Recovery, or a different AA or Alanon group BEFORE you pick up again, or when you are wanting to drink, smoke, etc etc, then get to a meeting in person or online and take what you like and leave the rest.

You are going feel uncomfortable in any group at first right?

Keep posting here and as you can see these guys and the auxiliary WILL and have already tried to help you.

Only you can stop forest fires... Kidding bro... Only YOU can decide when you are ready to quit.

The only requirement for any of the programs mentioned is that YOU want to quit drinking.

Start there and keep us posted. you have a lot of guys here pulling for you.
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