lovingfatherof2 wrote:HaltAndCatchFire wrote:Sounds like you backed off the dread game when she started asking about so-and-so. That is when you ramp it up not quit. You had her attention and then lost it when you backed off.
Chasbo wrote:The one thing that is the planning the OP is doing ( are you an engineer?). None of the planning is per se wrong. But it leaves out that this isn't a 2+2 process. The wrinkles and the bs are endless. Your wife will do her best to alienate your kids from you. Look what the bad man did to us. Many boys are naturally protective of their mum. Will you be able to handle that?
She left me. I'm the " innocent" party. I didn't cheat. I didn't instigate the divorce. She had a Mr W. It made a big difference. You won't have that. All hell will break loose, I predict. I'm not judging your decision. Just speculating on the cost.
Trevor wrote:Your language and your idea that the kids can't smell a rotting carcass seem either naive or delusional.
Fatheroffour wrote:In the grand scheme of things, it's nothing.
Though your concern is understandable, the value is misplaced.
notsorewhat2do wrote:You haven't explained how you get to 50/50 physical custody in a state where it isn't the norm -- once your wife has an attorney she/he will surely share this with her.
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