Additionally, are you keeping a well-written journal and parenting time tracker??
If you hope to get anything like 50/50, it's critical that you establish yourself as an active, involved father. You mustn't disparage your STBX. Instead, you need to lock yourself in as Superdad. For the past 11 mos, what have you done in this regard?? Have you got documentation to back it up??
Has your digital recorder been up and running 24/7??.....for the last 11 mos?? As you should know, it's your only defense against phony DV charges. It's not like you haven't had advance notice. All she hasta do is pick up the phone. For that matter, all she hasta do is say you threatened her 6 months ago.....and that would be enough to get you kicked out of the house. And with you out of the house, your case spirals down hill from there.B-Rad wrote:Recorded a good one tonight.....She lost it tonight and screamed, "I'm gonna call the police right now and say you are hurting me and threatening me."
^^^ This isn't just the "first step," Bro. These are the fundamentals upon which your case is built.