Havalu7 wrote:Boot to throat! Keep her off balance.
Make an offer but. ..keep jabing and keeping her off guard dude.
I don't know how to do that. I don't know what to offer her and how to keep her off guard.
I don't want to send her some lame emails. I did not approach her after the restraining order was removed. She waited a few months. I could tell that she (and her family) was confused by the lack of communication from me.
Then she started asking what my plan was and I wrote a longer email saying we can agree to do guideline child support and 50-50 asset split. The only thing we don't agree on is the custody. I said to her that we can leave custody to the judge and we can settle the rest 1 on 1 and then have the lawyers bless the agreement.
She never replied to that email. As far as I know she was also working on the proposal with her lawyer while arguing with her at the same time. Then her brother started this nonsense (in India). My guess is that he told her to wait while he tries his thing.
And today I learned that her lawyer has had enough. To be honest, she is keeping me guessing.