jblue wrote:I would honestly never do that 50/50 thing. And I don't get why it exists. If i had the choice of getting him EOW or getting him HALF the time.... I'd do EOW unfortunately. I'd hate it....but I would never want him to be shipped around like that. How do you spend half the time one place...then half at the other. That sounds like a MESS for the kid. And unfortunately, I'd "rather" have him EOW in that case....for HIS sake. No matter how much I'd suffer
Wow, you are going to be a lot of work if one of us really puts his mind to convincing you to do the right thing ...
There is nothing wrong with 50/50. We're not talking about one day with you/one day with his mother, that, indeed, would be chaotic. Week/week, or two weeks/two weeks. Kids can handle that just fine. It's done all the time, yours won't be the first and he won't be the last.
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