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Unread postby blng_blng » Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:38 pm

Joint legal and physical custody!
Things that worked from the LIST:
1. Character references (I had 100 good ones)
2. Save all emails (NEVER delete an email). Emails played considerable parts in getting all 5 DVRO's kicked out.
3. I fought the bogus CPS report on my own via getting the county board of supervisors involved
4. I pushed the limit with antagonizing NJ and her attorney ; which almost blew up in my face. In retrospect maintain radio silence, only bad things can happen if you feel the need to talk < feces >
5. Attorneys are indeed 90% of the problem
6. Never give up
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Unread postby trapper » Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:44 pm

Congratulations!
Winner winner chicken dinner!
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Unread postby lovingfatherof2 » Tue Mar 14, 2017 7:12 am

I agree 100% that lawyers are majority of the problem.

This is why the elders here always recommend a litigator. Someone that loves being in front of the judge, loves to win, loves to argue the law, doesn't care if he steps on OC toes, doesn't care if he annoys the judge and coaches you on what to say and do in any given scenario.

The only downside is litigators cost a lot more money than your typical lawyer/mediator but it's money you would end up spending anyways in the long run.
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Unread postby ohsnap » Wed Mar 22, 2017 11:05 am

Congrats!
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