Bro this is a great place to vent and ASK before making moves. Remember she may have a hurt back but this is boot to throat time. Not talking about not having compassion here but knowing that she is on one end of a business deal here. Take the emotion out of it and deal with it (the hurts and emotions you are feeling) separately and you will be better in the long run.
My Ex tried the "woe is me and I have to get Obamacare and pay rent and deposits and bills and, and, and,
". I caught myself feeling sorry for her and saying "Self, do you have to go through with this maybe we could get back together, maybe I am in the wrong and she needs my help. .." (STOP
). Here is where I caught myself buying her bs manipulating me back into a suck toucas relationship that would have cost me more assets. Remember in some cases more time together means more of your hard earned money into her bank just because she still "wuvs" you.
Okay let me try to post the Stop It" clip that one of the vets posted. Play it when you feel like you are getting sucked in to the I will wuv you crap vortex.
Okay software at work not permitting it so look up the Bob Newhart "Stop it" you tube clip.
One last edit; And its not just about assets and money. I did not want to be miserable with her for the rest of my life. No not no but HELL no! Even this morning I get that nagging jackarse on my other shoulder saying "You guys had a good thing and she is major hot and the sex was awesome (when she effing threw her back to me) and and and and and and. I have to literally knock the "bad angel" off my shoulder and shake that "going back" thinking out of my lonely needy self and remember I DESERVE a decent caring mate and not some miserable < female dog > manipulating Beotch who makes my life hell even though I am giving her everything in the world and she still ain't happy. EF THAT bro.
Okay I will calm down now and get back to work I just don't want you to waste another year or anymore time in a bad relationship. Or maybe you should just give in and kiss and make up living in the love bird nest the rest of your life until that black widow spider web is all the way spun around you and she EATS you.